When comments hurt


myeyeAs a newbie blogger I spend a lot of time reading other blogs. For me, that serves two purposes:  learning by watching others who are already successful at what I’m trying to do and keeping up with what’s going on in the world of internet marketing.

One piece of advice you’ll often hear is the importance of visiting other blogs in your niche and leave meaningful comments which in turn will / should / may  drive people to your blog.  In a discussion I read today on David Risley’s blog which I read daily ala Google reader some people are upset when they leave comments on the big-time blogger’s (those with huge readerships) but there is no reply or interaction.   

Fair or unfair?

You decide. Personally, I think that interacting with each and every person who comments when you have thousands of  readers (I wish) and hundreds of comments would be extremely difficult.  I liken it to a breakout session at a new members training I attended after joining a huge church in my area. The purpose of the breakout session was to discuss what you could/could not expect in a large group setting versus a smaller group setting. After discussion we discovered that there were quite a few things we had become accustomed to in the smaller congregation that we came from that would be nearly impossible to fulfill in a large group setting e.g. in a congregation of about 200 people, my pastor came to my first piano recital, my graduation from 6th grade, birthday parties and more. In a larger group setting (over 5,000) like where I attend currently, such an expectation would be impossible to live up to. All that to say, small readership = more interaction and so on. If not, the blogger with a huge readership and lots of comments would spend all their time interacting and have no time for creating new posts or marketing. I think what they do is look at all of their comments, some of which are similar in nature and respond to one or two in each category. Maybe not the best thing, but it is at least an attempt at interaction. 

Your thoughts?

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Blogging: How I got un-stuck


For me the hardest thing to do was to get from ‘I want to create a blog’ to actually creating it.

yvetteThe desire was there but I just couldn’t seem to get started because I felt that I had to know everything before I could begin. After examining other blogs I convinced myself that there was no way I could become a blogger because I didn’t know enough and I couldn’t write well enough so I stayed stuck. When I finally got up enough courage to get started, I couldn’t decide on which blogging platform to use. There are many to choose from. My fave is Wordpress.  From there I couldn’t decide on which wordpress theme I wanted to use. One-column, three-column, black, red, blue or green? What to do, what to do? Then I had to decide on the best plug-ins (those are the extras you can add to your wordpess blog to make it more functional).

When my husband asked me one day, “How’s your blog coming along?” and I had to tell him that I was still getting it together, I realized that I had been suffering from analysis paralysis. I had talked myself into doing nothing because I wanted to learn everything first. It finally clicked that my blog didn’t have to be perfect and I didn’t have to know everything before I could get started. The most important thing was to go ahead and get started knowing that I would make some mistakes along the way but  isn’t that how I have learned some of my best lessons?

What’s stopping you?

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